Reflecting on To the Moon and Back by Eliana Ramage
When I first stumbled upon To the Moon and Back, I was drawn in by the promise of a narrative that delves into the complexities of identity, family, and the rites of passage that shape us. Eliana Ramage’s ability to weave deep emotions into the tapestry of everyday experiences intrigued me. As I began to read, I found myself immersed in a world that mirrored some of my own struggles, allowing me to connect with the characters on a profoundly personal level.
This novel is a rich exploration of themes like early childhood stress and the impact of trauma. It’s a story that doesn’t shy away from difficult topics such as domestic violence, racism, and bullying, yet it also finds room for humor and hope amid the darkness. I was particularly struck by the narrative’s depth, which resonates brilliantly with the struggles of women breaking free from traditional societal expectations. I really appreciated how Ramage allows her female characters to be imperfect and misunderstood, yet beautifully complex and relatable.
The book alternates between two first-person perspectives, which initially confused me as the voices felt strikingly similar. However, as I settled into the rhythm of the narrative, I realized this was a conscious choice on Ramage’s part to blur lines and invite readers to experience the inner workings and conflicts between these two characters. It took me a while to navigate these shifts, but it added an intriguing layer to the storytelling.
One of my favorite quotes reflects the disillusionment that permeates the narrative: “I could barely believe what had happened to us… Our planet and everyone on it, sucked into darkness in the space of a breath.” It captures a feeling of inevitability that resonates deeply, especially in moments of personal upheaval. Ramage’s skill in articulating such raw emotions left me with an intense book hangover—on both an intellectual and emotional level.
I also adored how the author integrated blog posts and comments seamlessly into the narrative. This technique often feels heavy-handed in other books, but here it flowed with elegance, enhancing character development while keeping the pace engaging. It’s one of those elements that made me eager to turn each page, curious about how shared experiences of the characters would unfold online and off.
Ultimately, To the Moon and Back is not just a story—it’s an experience that lingers long after the last page is turned. It’s for anyone who has grappled with the weight of familial expectations, identity, and the pursuit of one’s dreams, particularly girls and women navigating complex emotional landscapes. I hope to revisit this book, not only because I loved it but because its layers continue to unfold in my mind.
Thank you to Eliana Ramage, Avid Reader Press, and NetGalley for providing my digital ARC of this book. If you’re in the mood for a heartfelt exploration of family complexities and the struggle for personal authenticity, this book just might be your next favorite read.